To be different is normal

A few thoughts over the bank holiday weekend

Somethings should not need to explained but in the liberal world they do.

The correct pattern is for girls to greet females such as grandparents, aunts, sister first going over to them and for boys to go over and greet grandads, uncles, and brothers because you are the same sex as them.

A boy is cared for, entertained and plays with the adults and older siblings of his own sex the same way a girl does with hers because in each instance they know what makes you tick and handle yourself because dear snowflakes, you are actually gendered and that is that!

You can normally tell in such a situation if something is wrong because the child goes for the wrong person as nearly all of us identify with our same sex friends and family.

Obviously when there is just Mum or Granny you go to them and greet them but then they should make a point of reacting to you as their son, grandson and so on. Never an 'it' or a 'they'.

Upon the death of my Uncle

My Uncle died Friday of dementia and Covid-19 complications and looking back on it being unable in the current conditions to visit him before so, abiding memories of him through early boyhood include buying me a real leather cowboy dress up set with holster and gun that had a distinctive aroma.

He also bought me numerous cap guns and caps that I enjoyed firing at anyone and anything that double crossed me in play as he loved Westerns and often sat with me watching them.

He also got me my first 'proper' tape recorder when I became thirteen years old and knew my inner boyside well.

R.I.P Uncle Tom.

What is right about being a boy

The negativity around being a boy today is immense and even from so-called experts that you really have stop and think about what is actually so good about it.

We feel alive running and jumping around especially together.As well, it is contagious!

Skateboarding may not be for all - certainly I never had the co-ordination required to stay on - but many do showing their able to practise manoeuvres and a preparedness to put their backs into learning them apart from showing some guts. 

We do sports whatever our personal challenges and disabilities might be, finding strength and courage to continue. We're not weak.

We are social and love making things so the combination of the two is just fantastic so add a touch of competitiveness and we'll go with it. I loved making and flying model airplanes.

Being a boy is just great when we're respected for being that and you engage with our interests and abilities.

Rejoining the playground

This week begins with my best Bud and mentor Edward losing yet again his Tumblr with no warning signs, no breaches of their actual terms of service nor did he post any pictures that would of been out of place in a family magazine.
Axed no doubt by those who think any pictures of boys happens to be wrong and any who question Tumblr's left Liberal political line about gender including identity politics, and activism.

After a while I have decided to give joining another website a try as while I'm not not into AB/DL AB does nothing for me and while I have no issues with people do wear diapers unless I was to become incontinent I just don't get why I'd want to at least that sort of community has less issues with being an adult little boy and can live with presenting more as a adult schoolboy.

Because of its core users being considered kink, it doesn't accept pictures of actual children no matter what in entries and avatars nor can it accept older teens but does have within it's "Adult Kids" section a sub forum for Boys Only posts.

Conversation around Age Regession as it applies to those of us eighteen plus is thin on the ground on Tumblr especially that which allows for uniforms and even spanking to be talked of within that context.

While a simple mistake with age that had no serious consequences left me being prevented from posting for a few days despite putting it right for some strange reason given the number of times I attempted to contact them, eventually that has been put right.

That conversation side is the one thing I have missed since ASB.org closed and so I think it's time to stand inline with other boys as just another boy in his shorts and play.