Boy Talk is the act and space when and where two boys (or more) talk about things you wouldn't with a girl. It's where you want privacy and you'll get it anywhere you can so you'd say something like "We need to do boy talk".
It's then more a space to talk through and about things that would never work in any setting with girls because we're and in this blog I am talking about boys feelings and emotions and my own.
In the past some of this would of been in the Dorm of the Boarding school I attended, the locker rooms of sports halls and leisure centres and the showers which were the places I felt comfortable in
This Blog can be seen as a extra to my main SFW Middles blog cos it's the same ol' me that writes them both and it's the case you get links on this account to it because I, Chris is not a one trick pony.
I write about my life as a middle - a full life that covers people, events, interests and relationships as experienced and lived and that blog covers the more SFW side of it
Link: That Uniformed Schoolboy
That's something some folks around age regression tried to push on me as a Middle to the point it really put me in a bad place and I moved out to boys own regression and the ASB community learning to love being the masculine boy I am personal likes included.
What I and others mean by being a middle is quite simply the act of being very much like a tween or early teens child except for being legally an adult and come out of you not as an Age Play where you act out a role with more adult bdsm mindset but more you're always in it as an Age Regressor and does not whilst in that space feature anything sexual or about power play.
Indeed actually I'm not sexual at all feeling very much child-like.
My life is very much child-like not least for the learning/developmental disabilities that leave chunks of me functioning at that level finding much of the adult would goes over me and because I would be in some situations very much out of my depth, actually with a similar vulnerability to a child.
I generally wear short short trousers similar to those I did when I was originally younger as they really are so much the authentic little me.
The proper word to describe how I am is Age Dysphoric and as that word suggests you have and I've battled with this difference between how other people see someone of my bone age and that child in a adult body within.
We talk about that on the reddit NeverGrewUp
I love playing with teddy bears, making things from play-doh, lego, colouring and hugging my plushies apart from reading junior fiction having a low reading age and music.
This blog differs from the other one because it does go much more into my feelings and emotions some coming from my past, some are about the stress and strains of my life now where I talk about them and how I can better manage the emotions I feel.
One place where I have an account where I can let them out which has a "Adult Kids" and a Boys Own section is DD Forums -Adult Kids which is AB/DL place but one can just ignore that stuff.
I find the act of writing out those thoughts aids in developing a better sense of personal awareness as they do impact on those things that lead to being disciplined and even if not, can still have a negative effect on those around me.
It encourages me to take proper ownership of how I feel and act so I learn to take more personal responsibility which is something I have struggled with.
I do talk about gender roles and how the so-called third wave of Feminism is really about marginalizing male roles and men's masculinity by judging from exclusively female lines and how muddled up thoughts around what is gender and what is sex are attacking maleness at the core.
I love playing with teddy bears, making things from play-doh, lego, colouring and hugging my plushies apart from reading junior fiction having a low reading age and music.
This blog differs from the other one because it does go much more into my feelings and emotions some coming from my past, some are about the stress and strains of my life now where I talk about them and how I can better manage the emotions I feel.
One place where I have an account where I can let them out which has a "Adult Kids" and a Boys Own section is DD Forums -Adult Kids which is AB/DL place but one can just ignore that stuff.
I find the act of writing out those thoughts aids in developing a better sense of personal awareness as they do impact on those things that lead to being disciplined and even if not, can still have a negative effect on those around me.
It encourages me to take proper ownership of how I feel and act so I learn to take more personal responsibility which is something I have struggled with.
I do talk about gender roles and how the so-called third wave of Feminism is really about marginalizing male roles and men's masculinity by judging from exclusively female lines and how muddled up thoughts around what is gender and what is sex are attacking maleness at the core.
We do have a safe for work site where things our past lives and life as adult little boys is discussed excluding any spanking related matters with a team of moderators.
Uniformed Regressors
This blog also goes more into the world of Caregiver and similar relationships with other Adults I have in my life, traditional school based remedial learning to help with my difficulties with basic Math and English with uniform and the role of corporal punishment in my life as a middle.
Being a Middle means in simple terms we're in a more upper tween/teen frame of mind with similar needs and are not functionally fully adult which is where people such as Caregivers come in.
They provide by agreement the structure and guidance you need to function as well as you are able to and this for me involves the use of corporal punishment for disciplining me whenever I'm being dishonest, disrespectful or disobedient.
My attitudes and behaviour do leave a lot to desired at times and are connected with the way I was brought up and also not fully maturing so in a way you have the same carry on with me as you'd have with a child. Because of host of issues I do not respond at all well to reasoning or other more adult kinds of disciplining getting more and more confused as word jumble up in meaning and time leaving me more agitated.
I respond much better to the more on the spot short sharp shock of a spanking with some guidance and aftercare to help shift what lead to the spanking instead.
This is why my Caregiver spanks me: To help my change my immature behaviour and as part the means of helping me to grow up which I need to do.
This blog also goes more into the world of Caregiver and similar relationships with other Adults I have in my life, traditional school based remedial learning to help with my difficulties with basic Math and English with uniform and the role of corporal punishment in my life as a middle.
Being a Middle means in simple terms we're in a more upper tween/teen frame of mind with similar needs and are not functionally fully adult which is where people such as Caregivers come in.
They provide by agreement the structure and guidance you need to function as well as you are able to and this for me involves the use of corporal punishment for disciplining me whenever I'm being dishonest, disrespectful or disobedient.
My attitudes and behaviour do leave a lot to desired at times and are connected with the way I was brought up and also not fully maturing so in a way you have the same carry on with me as you'd have with a child. Because of host of issues I do not respond at all well to reasoning or other more adult kinds of disciplining getting more and more confused as word jumble up in meaning and time leaving me more agitated.
I respond much better to the more on the spot short sharp shock of a spanking with some guidance and aftercare to help shift what lead to the spanking instead.
This is why my Caregiver spanks me: To help my change my immature behaviour and as part the means of helping me to grow up which I need to do.
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