Wednesday 13 July 2022

Finding our tribe


Your 'tribes' can often be described as your people, the group of individuals you connect with. It can be a collection of friends from the past or you may find these groups of people at work or whilst doing hobbies. They are people who you resonate and connect with straight away and didn't expect to.

There are some steps we can take to find our tribe.

Do some self-reflection. The first step to knowing what kind of relationships you want to build is to learn about yourself. ...
Try new things. ...
Attend meetups. ...
Ditch judgement. ...
Know when to commit. ...
Call out to your tribe. ...
Be the first to reach out. ...
Love yourself.

Okay but you may well be asking how do I know when I have as many of us call recall devoting heaps of effort into fitting in with one clique or other at school and that wasn't so satisfying.

The things I feel you would notice when you've found your own tribe are:

They encourage you to be yourself. Good friends don't want you to be just like them; they want you to be just like you. ...
They encourage you to be honest. ...
They give you space to make mistakes. ...
Through thick and thin. ...
Your friends encourage you to grow.

Those were the things typically we got wrong back then or we may of failed to provide for our friends as they grew to be themselves.

My tribes certain included Boys as they were are socially the gender group I resonate with the group only us could have life experiences in common with.


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