Sometimes the question on Tumblr does come up about following because what may appear to be superficially similar tumblr blogs can have very different means to different people.
To me Adult Little Boy is just that, in essence a adult who is regressed to the mindset of a child as from adult male to boy who acts upon that through his play, interests and for some how he dresses.
It is therefore very much safe for work by design because it is about being a child and therefore what you do is just like a child and doesn't involve say adult content.
From my vantage point being an adult schoolboy is just the regressed state taken to the point of studying as that regressed state adult male back to boy and in typically a uniform nothing more and while I have no issues around any individual whose schoolboy centred regression may include spanking, spanking as kink activity isn't in it.
The only spanking you *may* have is the one is the one you'd of got at school as say a 13 year old who told the teacher to eff of or didn't do his homework in the era this was normal.
In so far as my Tumbrs go, there's no spanking content of any sort in part cos tumblr while not having a no spanking content rule often removes anything someone else might think was kink or 'child abuse' and also cos it's not the mainstay of my real world alb life.
Thing is for small number of people they see schoolboys in shorts and leap straight into "whack, whack, whack" often bared or even into male on male sex.
As I've said before I don't give a hoot about your sexuality even if as someone who is hetrosexual I can't say I know what gets your rocks off if you're bi or gay but what I do have a problem with is adults who feel that having sex with a child or seeing a child as sex object is acceptable behaviour.
Back to where this leaves me is for instance if a person under 18 wishes to follow me, then on the face of it he should be able to as my tumblr is sfw written from a regressed boy level with nothing that's inappropriate to a child.
The complication comes when someone follows me who is 18+ and DOES have adult content of sexually explicit nature on theirs AND a minor sees who is following mine and finds it.
We've just exposed a minor to adult content which in many territories is against the law.
That is one reason I remove people periodically that do have adult content, especially of a latent pedophilia interest or suggestions direction.
It was a reason I also did have a No Minors followers limit not because I wanted to but more to deal with those who as adults choose to stick two fingers up at my terms of interaction and respect why I do have them.
I have revised it not to add the caveat "unless approved" which means I've checked theirs over that they're not soliciting what in law they can't and I have messaged them to permit them to having confirmed their age and shown some maturity.
Seeing it is coming up to Christmas I'd normally post a seasons greetings entry on the other blog but seeing this is a different blog proposition instead I talk about something different.
There are times when I do like to talk a bit about my past and where some of that confusion came from that was leaving me feeling pretty bad.
There was a group of adult littles I knew who were mainly or at the time saw themselves as transgendered where at the time there weren't many places for adult little boys that weren't in with sissification and a whole lot of stuff I didn't care for.
There was an individual let's call them 'K' who was a mainstay of them who saw herself as male to female adult little girl who wrote fiction around that topic who had some serious issues in their professional life because of attitudes toward being that way when they presented as male for work.
To put things simply and in a fair minded way she didn't see herself having nor wanting an adult female side, being that adult little girl was just how the little side came out.
That group tended to push me toward their scene during that period but visiting some of their written work during the period I started to drift back toward adult little boys I noticed they had written a lengthy prose piece some of which is relevant to how and why I've moved so far away from that scene.
I think the first thing was she was very disenchanted with the Transgender movement because she felt pushing people especially children who still looked in the buff as one sex but claiming the other in to things such as Scouting, School and Work based closets, changing rooms and dorms what were single SEX for a good reason just for ideological reasons (believing Sex and Gender are the same and feeling one Gender equals being that Sex) was not just bad tactics but actually very wrong flying in face of human nature.
Adolescent boys and girls are driven to explore sexuality and relationships, many of us can remember that and so placing people whose sexual attraction is toward the opposite sex even if that one member claims to be of a different gender doesn't prevent *anything* happening.
One of the points she made (and probably pissed a few people off by saying) is it's not just that gender and sex are not the same (gender is the social and culture form that aligns to a persons sex) but also actually you cannot actually change your sex.
That figuratively was a kick in the balls given some of stuff I'd been told.
What she said was you could change the appearance of your body through surgery or purely cosmetically but it doesn't alter your internal sex one iota and that really was a fantasy.
Few who do 'transition' resemble the born female cis models used in much of the transgender articles around that and memes posted on tumblr and the like finding they still don't feel comfortable with their bodies as adults.
One of things I felt bad about in that group was whenever they'd discuss things about gender actually I felt a strong connection to my sex - I didn't wish to have them removed - and I liked the connections it gave me.
She decided it appeared not to call herself Transgendered because she always felt that little girl and never a woman and didn't wish to associated with those peoples attitudes.
In the parallel universe, I'd formed the view I rather liked and would sooner spend my time with and in the adult little boy and schoolboy world because actually I liked my sex and I felt my sex and gender were aligned even if some of my interests may of been at the time gender untypical.
Thus in time I left that group realizing much of its focus was far removed from me and by doing so I'd move on to the world I actually belong in, the world of adult little boys who love being themselves.
That has proven to be so much better for me I can't put it into words.
This week has been a bit mixed with me as a I continue to hobble about with this damaged ankle which has meant having to wear wider mover novelty type socks to accommodate its dressing rather than the usual grey ones.
I also had the Conservative Party's Candidate husband call round asking me about my voting intentions as I answered the door in schoolboy attire which was a shock as it rare these days for any party to do an old school door knocking canvasing for elections in this district but he wasn't fazed by it at all and I felt pretty comfortable just being my adult little boy self at the door.
One annoying thing I will talk about on here is how I discovered the roverscoutandy Tumblr had blocked me from all my tumblr accounts so I cannot follow, message or reblog from his at all.
Anyone who knows my Tumblrs will know they are squeeky clean when it comes to content, totally sfw, all reblog comments are highly appropriate and pro scouting and yet he treats me like I'm a porn blog and takes the time to track down every.single.account to block.
Well stuff him, I can still get anything I want to reblog and do it by other means shall we say and as that scouting blog is hosted in an external form he can't touch it either cos he is NOT stopping me from blogging.
Blooming twat!.
I'm here, my ankle isn't good thanks to a stone that remove the skin and left it looking a bit bloody and battle worn while trudging around in the frost and ice but I'm still around, getting things done as usual.
We're getting set toward Crimbo here, our time of year in lots of ways with memories of Christmas Pasts flooding back as you paw through old address books and find the odd old card from someone who's no longer with us.Things I recall include being trudged around stores to get things for relatives, helping mummy out carrying the bags from department stores like Boots, BHS, M&S and those no longer with us like British Home Stores and of course Woolworths where if I was a good boy I'd be bought a meal in the restaurant some of these stores had and maybe a gift.
Christmas also could mean competition and things like how it was if you were given a chore to do girls would push in saying they wanted to help but in reality trying to take over so if she tried muscling in here he should be able to say clearly no, this is MY thing to do and if she won't accept it, a firm hand being taken to her.
They need to learn to let boys and men do what it is they can do and have agreed to do without this taking over which you see elsewhere with women so they learn to accept their place.Boys need to learn by mistakes and so don't benefit from having their roles taken off them rather than learning to master them properly.
