Post 500

 

The last week was a bit of a challenge which isn't new, after all this blog faced challenges way back in 2020 and 2021 during the pandemic and periods where I contracted Covid, losing Mum in 2023 and obviously before the blog got started in 2016 with both my born with and aquired disabilities.

This blog has tended to be in a sense a more personal and emotions based one going a good deal more into what I am about, what I feel, sometimes more into wider questions in society around topics involving disability, the importance of  play and imagination oven if you're over 18, the sense in which some of us are in effect adult children and so on.

What everybody does is different and there is no one "right" way, for some to read a story, rewatch a tv  show or film to play with childhood toys is sufficient to take them back to that time and in touch with those emotions and feelings that may of been buried by adult responsibilities such as work, looking after a partner.

You find yourself back in that frame of mind.

A good number of us feel to dress more like our childhood selves builds on that whither it is more akin to school uniform of our era or more like children's play or leisure wear not least short trousers, indeed we may feel more comfortable in our skin dressed as such.

Of course we know what our legal age is and would NEVER do anything to harm or otherwise have inappropriate contact with actual children whatever some might think (and where they get that from is a mystery!).

There are those who do like to recreate a school day and understandably those who'd run a mile from it, feeling the bad experiences they had as some of things that happened in our era were plain wrong.

Personally I can enjoy it so long as actual lessons where you do learn something new.

We tend not to talk a lot about it not least as I feel there's only so much that can be said without repeating yourself and that actually this adult child thing isn't centred around it but given the era many of us grew up in to talk of the past will bring up issues with and around spanking and some *may* find it comes into being that adult boy.

Personally I find a smack  to my bum delivered where I'd of had one in my childhood runs through it all adds to the totality of being that adult boy but I will add I do understand that those who had very bad experiences with any kind of cp at home or school will feel differently and have my understanding.

That's why I say how this thing is for you is YOUR thing and all I'm doing in publishing this blog is across a range things as I experience them and that hopefully it helps you be comfortable being yourself whatever some may of said at various points in your life.

Here's for the next hundred posts.