Forumitus or The stuff on a Mods mind

There were a few things on my mind last week that I do happen to feel like talking about  and one of them is the difference between boys that may have a more feminine side that they feel the need to express and  sissies.

The first thing to say is that "sissy" is not in any way at all a gender and really is more of a submissive trope that often involves humiliation of a sexual kind  where on the one hand they are told they are not a male  but then told they are inferior to and must be dominated by alpha females.

Such humiliation may be verbal, physical or mental and has no place with LGTQI community as  a gender. To be blunt it is a kink.

That is the #1 reason we will NEVER allow such content and promoters of at the forum.

There are people who while feeling that their gender is male to the point they would not be looking at transitioning as female who may like to either do things usually associated more with feminine interests or to wear skirted attire.

I'm less than convinced that unless you personally have felt that need you yourself would get it but just being able to is all they are looking for, no changes in pronouns, just being able to the whole person as they feel it.

Those people have little if anything to do the first set and if they were growing up from the fifties to the nineties most likely would of experienced name calling including from people who should know better such as teachers and felt threatened at times.

Because you may not understand something doesn't make it okay to be dismissive of a person with it.

I have time for them and if at any point felt that way I would too.

The other point is I do lack time for people only seem to last a few weeks, get into a conflict, leave and then return undercover hiding as someone else especially when they have broken forum rules.

Some people seem to be unable to see that "truth will out" as people identify posting style, past expressions and titbits of information as one person got found out at two very different sites this week.

People do notice these things and I can't help but remark on the futility of that. 

Any wish to return really ought to be discussed with site crew and if of necessity it involves a need to make a new account that should be disclosed so people know who they are engaging with.