Real equality starts by recognizing we ARE different

It seems to me people have a problem with being a male because rather than acknowledging as a few still do boys and girls are for the most part different, complementary  and that is fine, we prefer to judge from a feminine baseline.
The very strengths that built our civilization are seemingly not fit for purpose in the post feminist world.
At least one Feminist does recognize the one missing thing from the gender revolution has been 60 years of male debate about our roles, how we express our gender and how we can better raise a greater more equal society that values men and women.
The absence of which is leading boys and men with no idea of what is expected of them as males.